I Am Angry, but I Defend Your Right to Refuse an Interview
A television station wanted to report on the Anti-Cancer Commune, which of course we welcomed, because it is publicity for us.
One part of the report was to interview a local beneficiary. We nonetheless called the beneficiary, hoping that they would accept the interview.
But they refused.
This left me very uncomfortable. I was depressed for several days, and angry too.
We helped someone, and they would not even help publicise us.
!!!!!!
After several days of reflection, I think there is something positive in this.
This may be precisely where the value of the Anti-Cancer Commune lies.
In the Commune's rules and publicity, we have drawn the difference from charity:
In the Anti-Cancer Commune, receiving aid is a right — no need for gratitude and deference.
Joining the Anti-Cancer Commune, you obtain help with dignity.
Joining the Anti-Cancer Commune, your privacy is protected.
The beneficiary refused our hope for publicity — is that not the best proof of our rules, systems and values?
Is the member's dignity not preserved?
Is the purpose the Anti-Cancer Commune proclaims not achieved?
So I gradually calmed down.
Although I still feel a little dissatisfaction, we must accept and defend your right to refuse an interview.
Every member may refuse to help publicise the Anti-Cancer Commune.
That is your right!
Founder, KangAi Commune