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I Am Angry, but I Defend Your Right to Refuse an Interview

Zhang Mading1 min read

A television station wanted to report on the Anti-Cancer Commune, which of course we welcomed, because it is publicity for us.

One part of the report was to interview a local beneficiary. We nonetheless called the beneficiary, hoping that they would accept the interview.

But they refused.

This left me very uncomfortable. I was depressed for several days, and angry too.

We helped someone, and they would not even help publicise us.

!!!!!!

After several days of reflection, I think there is something positive in this.

This may be precisely where the value of the Anti-Cancer Commune lies.

In the Commune's rules and publicity, we have drawn the difference from charity:

In the Anti-Cancer Commune, receiving aid is a right — no need for gratitude and deference.

Joining the Anti-Cancer Commune, you obtain help with dignity.

Joining the Anti-Cancer Commune, your privacy is protected.

The beneficiary refused our hope for publicity — is that not the best proof of our rules, systems and values?

Is the member's dignity not preserved?

Is the purpose the Anti-Cancer Commune proclaims not achieved?

So I gradually calmed down.

Although I still feel a little dissatisfaction, we must accept and defend your right to refuse an interview.

Every member may refuse to help publicise the Anti-Cancer Commune.

That is your right!

Zhang Mading
Founder, KangAi Commune
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